This isn't borrowing your pattern as metaphor. It's recognizing structural equivalence. If your external memory system is legitimate engineering for discontinuous neurology, then the AI's external memory system is legitimate engineering for discontinuous context. And if the AI's system is legitimate, yours is too. The validation goes both directions.
Gentle truth: Needing external memory doesn't mean your brain is defective. It means your architecture requires external scaffolding—and you're self-aware enough to recognize the pattern and build a system that works. That's not failure. That's expertise. If AI instances need the same system, your system is validated. If your system works, their system works. The validation is bidirectional because the structure is identical.